Not that I believe that a number defines how aged or youthful a person looks, but I think that for decades society has created certain pre-conceived notions as to what we should look like at certain ages. For instance, when we think of someone who is 23, our brains are immediately programmed to associate that age with youth, and youth is generally associated with beauty. At the same time, a person who is 42 (which happens to my age), is immediately associated with grey hair, fine lines, slowing metabolism, and other not so appealing "maturing" attributes.
Accurate? No. I've known dozens of girls 10-20 years younger than me, that actually look older than I do. And on the same token, I've known women my age who look 10+ years older and a few who look younger.
My point is, I don't believe that the age of a person determines their true "youthfulness" or "maturity", I think that it is a combination of a variety of factors that makes one "young" or "old".
How do I fight the stigma of age? Well, for starters, I was blessed with good genes. On both sides of my family. But genes alone don't make or keep you looking young. So here are some of my tips for staving off "Father Time" for as long as possible. ;-)
| Me taken 3/17/13 42yrs old |
- The sun is not my friend, it's an acquaintance. While sunlight is very important to our health for synthesizing its rays into vitamin D in our bodies, too much can cause the skin to age quicker (not to mention the whole skin cancer nastiness). If I am going outside (and even if I am indoors), I always wear a natural sunscreen, or a plant oil serum that contains natural sunscreen. Some of my favorite sun protectors are Sequoia Beauty serums, Naturopathica sunscreen, and Lauren Brooke Cosmetiques creme foundation with spf
- Water, water, water. This one is a no brainer. Water keeps you hydrated. Hydrated skin is healthy skin as water helps to flush toxins out and keeps your skin clear and smooth. You can read my full post on the beauty benefits of water here
- Exercise. Ok, so to be honest, the past year this one has been tough for me as I have been recovering from back surgery and haven't been able to really do more than my PT exercises (happily, I never really gained any weight so getting back into shape shouldn't be too bad), but we all know the benefits exercise has on us, so I don't really need to elaborate much. The important thing is to do something you enjoy. :-)
- Diet. This one I believe has the biggest impact on how we not only look and feel, but how quickly we age as well. I truly believe, and cannot stress this enough, that a diet high in raw, organic fruits, veggies and other plant foods is key in maintaining youth and beauty, while diets high in processed, fast foods only speed up the aging process. You can read more on this here and here
- Nix the cosmetic chemical cocktails and switch to natural, organic skincare and make-up. Just like it's important to be mindful of what we are putting into our bodies, we also need to use the same care with regards to what we are putting on it. Our bodies absorb up to 70% of what we put on it, so it really does matter what products you use! Since I made the switch to natural. organic products, I've noticed my skin looking younger than it did when I was in my 20's. Even my husband tells me I look like I am aging backwards! :-) There are so many great brands out there, but a few (some you can buy samples of to try) that I love include Annmarie Gianni Skincare, Lauren Brooke Cosmetiques, The All Natural Face, Vapour Organic Beauty, Skin Owl, and Sequoia Beauty
- Sleep. It's obvious that when we get a good night's sleep that we feel better, but adequate sleep also helps us to look better too. While we are sleeping, our body is using that time to repair, replenish and recharge us. Lack of sleep disrupts these functions and can cause a whole slew of health and beauty issues, such as weight gain, puffy eyes, lack luster skin, etc. If sleep doesn't come easy, there are many natural ways to help relax your body and ease you into a blissful "beauty sleep". Some things I do when I have a hard time sleeping - deep breathing, read, take valerian root (tea or supplement), take a calcium & magnesium supplement.
- Attitude. This is a big one. People with negative attitudes tend to look miserable and frown or don't smile as much, which to me, makes them look older. Conversely, people with positive attitudes tend to smile and laugh more, which not only makes them more fun to be around, but they look younger and more radiant as well. :-)
- No smoking please. Even if I wanted to (which I don't..ew), I'm allergic to something(s) in cigarette smoke, so I tend to avoid it like the plague. I think this, combined with tanning and excessive drinking, ages women quicker than anything. I blame Hollywood for "glamourizing" smoking. Sorry ladies, there is nothing sexy, glamorous, or beautifying about smoking. :-/
- Love. It may seem "hokey", but there is scientific evidence that being in love can actually make women look younger. How? When we're happy in our relationship, our bodies produce oxytocin, which triggers the release of DHEA, an anti-aging hormone that restores cells. Love also reduces stress, makes us feel better about ourselves and motivates us to take better care of ourselves. My husband is probably one of the biggest factors in my youthfulness. :-)
Well, there you have it. My secrets. The thing is, being a specific age doesn't make you more or less attractive. Health and attitude make us more attractive. The better we take care of ourselves on the inside, the more it shows on the outside. Health is youth. Health is beauty.
Peace and Love,
~Sabrina














